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The children are the most affected when there is a Divorce in Bakersfield. But who can blame them? Most of the time, the marriage of their parents crumbles down and they are unwilling witnesses to their parent’s squabbles. When this happens, children will blame themselves since they really think that they are the reason why their parents fight in the first place. This will develop in to insecurities and loneliness which the children can bring well in to adulthood. They would also remain aloof and distrustful of people and will remain alone and isolated for most of their lives. If you and your spouse are getting a divorce, take the time to tell the chidlren that it is never their fault why the family is broken. Assure them of your love.